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Sunday, August 31, 2008
type six
I have finally found the type of person i belong to out of the nine types of the ''Enneagram''
after some research I conducted, I analysed all nine and i figured out my type. =D

I am type six, the loyalist.
Basically, there are nine types of people in this world, their types are fixed at a young age before 5, people tend to change or mold to other types or have different characteristics due to the change in environment or other social factors.. but the true core of a human is already fixed, more commonly addressed as one's ''true self''


Sixes are the most loyal to their friends and to their beliefs.
They will “go down with the ship” and hang on to relationships of all kinds far longer than most other types.
Sixes are also loyal to ideas, systems, and beliefs—even to the belief that all ideas or authorities should be questioned or defied. Indeed, not all Sixes go along with the “status quo”: their beliefs may be rebellious and anti-authoritarian, even revolutionary. In any case, they will typically fight for their beliefs more fiercely than they will fight for themselves, and they will defend their community or family more tenaciously than they will defend themselves.
The reason Sixes are so loyal to others is that they do not want to be abandoned and left without support—their Basic Fear. Thus, the central issue for type Six is a failure of self-confidence. Sixes come to believe that they do not possess the internal resources to handle life’s challenges and vagaries alone, and so increasingly rely on structures, allies, beliefs, and supports outside themselves for guidance to survive. If suitable structures do not exist, they will help create and maintain them.
Sixes are always aware of their anxieties and are always looking for ways to construct “social security” bulwarks against them. If Sixes feel that they have sufficient back up, they can move forward with some degree of confidence. But if that crumbles, they become anxious and self-doubting, reawakening their Basic Fear.
Until they can get in touch with their own inner guidance, Sixes are like a ping-pong ball that is constantly shuttling back and forth between whatever influence is hitting the hardest in any given moment. Because of this reactivity, no matter what we say about Sixes, the opposite is often also as true. They are both strong and weak, fearful and courageous, trusting and distrusting, defenders and provokers, sweet and sour, aggressive and passive, bullies and weaklings, on the defensive and on the offensive, thinkers and doers, group people and soloists, believers and doubters, cooperative and obstructionistic, tender and mean, generous and petty—and on and on. Type sixes are just a bundle of opposites.
Sixes are reliable, hard-working, responsible, and trustworthy.
Excellent "troubleshooters," they foresee problems and foster cooperation, but can also become defensive, evasive, and anxious—running on stress while complaining about it. They can be cautious and indecisive, but also reactive, defiant and rebellious. They typically have problems with self-doubt and suspicion. At their Best: internally stable and self-reliant, courageously championing themselves and others.
weakness of type six
-emotional dependant on others for security
-indecisive and skeptical
-highly suspicious of oneself without support from others
-unhealthy sixes feel inferior easier without any affirmation
strengths of type six
-loyal to high authority, and friends
-possess good leadership with sufficient confidence
-the most alert amongst all the nine when it comes to sensing trouble
uniqueness of type six
-both strong and weak, high extremes of different personalities
-they need to feel secure and safe to be happy
thank you god for telling me who I really am, explaining all the various reactions and feelings I experience in life.
I have found my true self =D
what's your type?
http://www.enneagraminstitute.com/



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